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Finally me

My life has been like a twilight zone, a world I was taught was real and my own world and reality but not knowing how to live and express it. I did not learn how to feel myself, or how to go my own way, I was taught to control...

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Surrender to life

It is now 7 years ago since I surrendered myself to whatever wants to unfold in my life. I was struggling with a lot, did work that was not me and I did not know how to get out. So I started asking show me why am I here, how...

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The beauty of surrender

After years of practicing shibari I wonder what it is that keeps me so in love with this way of expressing and connecting. Every time it is different and every time it touches me so deeply. It brings me to a place inside myself where I feel calm, playful, vulnerable...

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Opening up in intimacy

In the field of intimacy and sexuality we are experiencing and opening up in so many ways nowadays. We have not really learned how to be sexual in a healthy way and so we are looking for it in tantra, at sexy parties, in couples clubs, in beautiful shibari, in...

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Freedom to explore

When i was growing up there was a lot of judgment on sex, and especially a girl liking a lot of sex. I was that girl and i didn’t think there was anything wrong with exploring sex. There was shame & limiting beliefs on what is considered ‘right’ sexual behavior...

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Touch yourself

Exploring ourselves intimately is such a deep, liberating, fun and challenging path to follow.Showing our vulnerability, our greatness and our true hearts is something we learn by taking it step by step. We all have our own little buttons, fantasies and preferences. Partly this is who we are and partly...

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Integrating our past

Our past will always affect the way we are today. Especially in intimate relationships our past will influence the way we show ourselves. What limits us many of the time relates back to when we were younger and got hurt or felt we were not seen. We are protecting our...

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Fear

Last night I woke up and suddenly realised I have been afraid all my life.Afraid to show myself completely in all my colours (especially in groups). What I bring to this world is light fun spaces where we can bring exactly what we feel and who we are, do what...

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