Private Sessions


This is the right place2be if you want to connect deeper to yourself or your partner, if you long to feel more free in your body or if you are curious about new ways of connecting in intimacy and sexuality.

My name is Silvia and I organize workshops and give private sessions that give you the tools to see yourself or your partner with new eyes.

This will give space to let go of conditioning around what is allowed and what not and how this should look like. By liberating yourself from conditioning, blocked emotions, taboos and shame, you can connect deeper to yourself and others.

We grow up with ideas about intimacy and sexuality.
The how exactly it is done or how we can connect we do not learn.
The infinite possibilities in the world of intimacy are not very clear to us.

If you learn to see and experience intimacy in new ways, your intimate life will change but also your whole life will, you will start to feel more connected and more alive.
Intimacy and sexuality are a natural part of us as humans and if our sensual energy can flow freely, you feel the freedom in your body.

I use elements from tantra, tao, coaching, bodywork, conscious kink and my big passion shibari or kinbaku (Japanese bondage).
Everything that is needed to connect deeper to yourself or each other.
This is fully custom made according to you as an individual or you as a couple.

If you like you can book a free of charge introduction meeting online on the sessions page.

I would love to meet you one day!

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About me

Everything I have ever done or experienced in my life all come together in Natural Bliss. My life experience and quest to discover all of me, my passion for freedom in sexuality and my passion for diving deep into consciousness and awareness.

… From international management studies and a career in business to an ashram in Thailand, a holy mountain in India and yoga in Mexico, my exploration is endless.
I have learned a lot from different teachers and sources of inspiration. I have done schooling in relationships and intimacy, tantra and massage, shibari or Japanese bondage, do-in tao yoga and coaching.
Also I have learned so much from my own experience. I have explored and experienced freedom in sexuality, intimacy and relating and have been studying the path of consciousness in many different ways. From kinky to tantra, martial arts and dance, meditation and yoga.

The past 9 years I have practiced and studied tantra, tao, and shibari or kinbaku, the beautiful erotic art of Japanese bondage.
My work as intimacy- and transformation coach is based on all these experiences and from this I created my own combination of body and intimacy work to help others connect deeper to themselves and each other.

Also I let myself be inspired every day.
Sometimes the biggest wisdom can be found in the smallest encounters.

In connection to ourself and others lies intimacy, exploring boundaries, personal growth, how to give or receive, trust, our self image and self confidence.
Be vulnerable
Let yourself be deeply seen
Love with your whole heart
Practice gratitude and joy
and believe ‘I am enough’

Brené Brown, the power of vulnerability


  Very nice and connective weekend, both for us together as with the group. Safe, touching, beautiful, learning, confronting, tasty, playful, relaxed, pleasant. Especially very valuable for us both, for our connection. Glad we went!

       Last friday me and my man were at an event of Silvia and we had such a nice time. I am a 'head' woman, yes I am in charge, but also I am always in my head. All the years of practicing Tantra and woman's work I worked on 'how to get out of my head into my body quickly'.
Not only to be able to experience everything more deeply, like food and making love for example, but also to feel more flow in my creative work.
In het first half hour of the workshop with Silvia I landed deep into my body and all my senses were wide open! So wonderful! And at home we could repeat this in the weekend.
Finally a new way to step into connection, intimacy and sensuality with ease and without my usual awkwardness. Instant fun!"


        Would I recommend this to others?
I just tell about my own experience with so much passion that I start to shine. It makes everybody curious"

       Discovering a new world in a playful way, or is it discovering yourself? 
It is about loving connection"


       It is really special what has happened and is still happening. It is so wonderful to feel that fear can be an invitation to more freedom!
I came home very relaxed and the days after I felt both relaxed and strong, buzzing of energy and we experience a new freedom and joy in our (sexual) intimacy.
Since the weekend we have only tied each other up in our fantasy, but we feel a simmering sensuality and freedom.
Deep layers have been touched and ideas of what is not allowed have come to the surface. We can now express it and this brings even more connection and freedom and more realness between us.
I never expected that a weekend like this would bring that, I thought "nice, let's try an exciting fun weekend".
It brings real growth and also an awakening of our sexual and life energy (or is that the same?...)"


       I really recommand people to experience surrender and connection in such a renewing way"


       Time to literally connect to yourself and others, to feel and express my bounderies and also expand my boundaries.
Real joy!"

       It was a special shibari-week. Fun, energy and surrendering to.... yes, to what actually? Lots of thanx, again, for your initiative and presence.
It could not have been done without you is what you said. Those words have much power and tell me something about your view on life, how your realize that everything is connected. Nice to know and also to feel this connection. The magic returns through this.
Life runs through me more conscious now, I feel the love inside myself and around me, I feel trust and space for playfulness. What a joy and beauty. Mmmmm.
I intend to play with the (energetic) field of making a connection more, and maybe I will include the shibari ropes.
You have touched and inspired me and my girlfriend!"

Rob 55, Utrecht

      What I take in my daily live out of this workshop:
- a lot of love for and connection to my partner
- the importance of taking my role (either leading or surrendering)
- subtile and very clear communication (also with body language)
- dare to surrender to the unknown
What was valuable? It was beautiful to learn Shibari in a group with couples that are all in it for their own personal reason. To be able to be playful and explore and be curious with an open mind and without judgement.


Below you find my latest blogs. For more blogs you can visit my blog page

No self-love is my prison

Entering this new year I realize I still don’t love myself completely from deep within. Even though it is way better than it ever was and I have gone through so many layers of healing already.First my grip on life was my personality or ego layer.Thinking I was so smart, evolved, spiritual.She was arrogant and told me, see we are ...

It’s a new day

The energy in the world is very strong at this moment, everybody can feel it, opinions, separation, it is intensifying. It is really too much, I rather not feel it. But… I made a commitment… To myself, to my daughter, to all beautiful people I know, the spirit world, the universe: I am creating a new world! This is what ...


I am so loving that we are heading into this new world where expressing, loving, opening up, showing ourselves with every feeling we have is more and more allowed and even appreciated. We can express our sexuality, our creativity, our intellect, our inner being, our emotions, our uniqueness. But all this also comes with learning ‘how to’ express from our ...