A beautiful aspect of the work I do is coming together in groups.
In relation to others, dynamics arise.
Others are mirrors that tell you something about yourself.
In relation to others, you can touch themes such as vulnerability, boundaries, desires, safety, speaking your truth, feeling and expressing emotions.
In relation to others, you can play and explore.
I find this endlessly fascinating.
In this process, you get to know yourself better and better.
For me, this has contributed immensely to my development.
My biggest fear was speaking in groups. Especially going around the circle; as my turn came closer, everything inside me was shaking, and when I spoke, I had no idea what I was saying — my nerves would take over.
In those moments, I couldn’t feel myself.
Through practicing this, going through my fear, in small groups, in larger groups, in my own workshops, I gradually learned to use my voice and show myself to others.
This brought a lot of development and insights.
I notice around me that we increasingly long for this sharing with others, to share what we really feel inside.
By showing it to others, you literally get more breathing space.
You can then give yourself more permission to be who you are, with everything you feel in the moment. You begin to experience more freedom.
And intimacy is exactly that: feeling yourself and showing yourself to the other person.
Combined with a lot of touch and body language.
Talking and sharing how you feel is nice, but the language of the body and of touch makes it complete.
How does your body feel, where is your breath? Are you connected to your own sexuality, truly connected to your own body?
From there, you can connect with the other person.
How do you want to be touched, what are your desires, your boundaries? What are your partner’s desires and boundaries?
How can you give and receive exactly the way it feels good.
I love to pay a lot of attention to this in my retreats and sessions.
On my sessions or events page, you can see the possibilities to experience this yourself.
In relation to others, dynamics arise.
Others are mirrors that tell you something about yourself.
In relation to others, you can touch themes such as vulnerability, boundaries, desires, safety, speaking your truth, feeling and expressing emotions.
In relation to others, you can play and explore.
I find this endlessly fascinating.
In this process, you get to know yourself better and better.
For me, this has contributed immensely to my development.
My biggest fear was speaking in groups. Especially going around the circle; as my turn came closer, everything inside me was shaking, and when I spoke, I had no idea what I was saying — my nerves would take over.
In those moments, I couldn’t feel myself.
Through practicing this, going through my fear, in small groups, in larger groups, in my own workshops, I gradually learned to use my voice and show myself to others.
This brought a lot of development and insights.
I notice around me that we increasingly long for this sharing with others, to share what we really feel inside.
By showing it to others, you literally get more breathing space.
You can then give yourself more permission to be who you are, with everything you feel in the moment. You begin to experience more freedom.
And intimacy is exactly that: feeling yourself and showing yourself to the other person.
Combined with a lot of touch and body language.
Talking and sharing how you feel is nice, but the language of the body and of touch makes it complete.
How does your body feel, where is your breath? Are you connected to your own sexuality, truly connected to your own body?
From there, you can connect with the other person.
How do you want to be touched, what are your desires, your boundaries? What are your partner’s desires and boundaries?
How can you give and receive exactly the way it feels good.
I love to pay a lot of attention to this in my retreats and sessions.
On my sessions or events page, you can see the possibilities to experience this yourself.
