{"id":2214,"date":"2020-04-22T20:34:48","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T20:34:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.naturalbliss.nl\/english\/?p=2214"},"modified":"2021-01-13T20:43:59","modified_gmt":"2021-01-13T20:43:59","slug":"honoring-my-father-and-all-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.naturalbliss.nl\/english\/blog\/2020\/04\/22\/honoring-my-father-and-all-men\/","title":{"rendered":"Honoring my father and all men"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"2214\" class=\"elementor elementor-2214\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8b16f87 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8b16f87\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element 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100vw, 768px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-0c51a24\" data-id=\"0c51a24\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b56c1de elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b56c1de\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Today I want to honor my father and all men.<br \/>Today one year ago I saw my father for the last time on his birthday, 2 weeks later he died.<br \/>I felt a relieve for him, no more suffering, and also i felt a relieve for myself.<br \/>I never liked my father, he was hard and verbally fucked my brain and self confidence when i was young. <br \/>Very touching in the last years he became more soft.<br \/>But his earlier behavior made me look down on men in general.<br \/>I thought men were the inferior kind of humans and felt arrogant and hard towards men.<br \/>(Probably this also has to do with the long history and lineage of patriarchy in which men ruled the world).<br \/>Luckily I grew up with a very nice brother who changed my view on men just a little.<br \/>Also I always attracted nice and good hearted lovers and boyfriends.<br \/>But I could not see the real value men bring.<br \/>How I perceived men really only changed when I started my tantric path and became soft myself.<br \/>Now I can see the beautiful energy men bring, the grounding, the care taker, the spaceholder, the rock, how they try hard to understand women, the simplicity.<br \/>The death of my father created space in myself for my own inner soft masculine to rise.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bfcdf00 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